“Frankly this group is fun. Singing together, making music with other people is fun. So I’m not good at it but they appreciate me being here which is nice,” he said.
This is all thanks to the Resounding Voices Choir. Joel is a member of the choir along with his wife, Sandra. While fun, the choir gives more than just a good time. It gives people with memory impairment and their caregivers a place to be social and help with memory.
The choir focuses on a person’s learning ability, rather than an inability to remember.
“Music has a power that you know, I come from a scientific background and it’s like we don’t know how this is working,” he said.
But it is working.
“I’ve noticed with my wife, she’s sharper after doing it, she’s happier after doing it,” Joel said. “I will hear her singing at home and there’s an enjoyment in that…I can see some of what I married 50 years ago.”
Resounding voices also helps Joel as a caregiver because he has the opportunity to hear and learn from other caregivers going through similar experiences.
“Times get a little hard. You got to take care of yourself so that you can take care of the other person,” he said. “You can always find some good in it. Even though there are things you wish were better you got to focus on what’s good.”
He encourages everyone to join in on what he calls, ‘the joyful noise.’
“If you have some memory loss, don’t hide away…get out of your house don’t be afraid, it’s a good friendly group. It’s a real opportunity to have a nicer, fun life,” he said.
To learn more about the choir, click here. The chorus meets weekly and performs publicly.